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Separating the Males from the Male Supermodels

6/23/2010

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Your poster is everywhere. Three thousand people are screaming for you, throwing their barely-there clothes at you.

You’re high, not only from the excitement, but the drugs too – drugs you got for free like heroin, cocaine, ecstasy, and plain-old marijuana.

They think you’re a rock star. You forget you’re faking it.

Some people became famous by pretending to be famous. “Tyler,” a former male supermodel-turned actor, recalls his days “dancing for dollars” in Milan.

“I thought I was Elvis.”

Milan is the boot camp for male models, and dancing for dollars is a rigorous exercise the potential catwalkers and poster boys must endure. It may sound facetious, but dancing on a cube in Italy is what separates the males from the male supermodels.

To those who read Vogue, Milan may be the fashion capital of the world. To those who strive to be in Vogue, Milan may be the fashion victim capital of the world.
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Models flock to Milan in hopes of catching their big break. Instead of catching their big break most models become broke.

Rent and food are of haute-couture costs. Without working papers, and with an Italian vocabulary limited to Olive Garden’s menu, dancing for dollars is how Italian modelling agencies can exploit the vulnerable.

From CBC documentaries that delve into the sexual exploitation of fashion models, to ABC news reports describing modelling’s “…not so underground world of parties, cocaine, [and] easy sex,” the fashion industry is becoming exposed.

Ian Halperin, a Canadian journalist, went undercover in the fashion world after discovering his buddy had horrifying experiences and was sexually harassed, while pursuing a modelling career in Milan.

Halperin documented his findings in his book, Shut Up and Smile.

After interviewing over 300 models, Halperin found that agents are more interested in getting models between the sheets, than getting them good tear sheets.

Halperin wrote, “Every model I interviewed admitted that they were coerced into doing dirty deeds, like sleeping with their agent or turning tricks, before they made it big.”

Perhaps surprising, he said the world of male models is equally as bad as the world of female models.

Tyler agrees.

“[The agents] don’t just give you drugs so you’ll have a good time.” But, with all the glamour and pomp, it’s easy to lose yourself.

“You contact an Italian agency and it’s not long before you become a rock star.

“They send you a plane ticket, pick you up in a limo, pay for your food and hotel, and pay you to show-up at huge discos around Italy three or four times a week.”

Tyler explains that agencies and disco club owners pay the guys $300 to $500 US a night - more if they just hop up on a cube a dance for a few minutes.

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But, not only do the guys get paid in cash, they also get powdery bonuses.

“Discos in Italy are not what you’re used to. You can walk up to the bar and get coke.” Tyler is not talking about the kind you sip through a straw, rather the kind you snort through one.

He goes on to explain that people think the guys are stars, because that’s how they’re advertised. Everybody wants to see the “Amercani” models.

Girls come. Guys follow. Disco owners lure the Euro.

With all of the free drugs, free alcohol, and free sex, you start to burn out.

It’s easy to forget you are there to become famous says Tyler.

“The reason you go to Milan in the first place is to take advantage of the world’s best designers and photographers. But, they end up taking advantage of you.”

Models need portfolios of their pictures to get work. Only by working can they create portfolios. So, even the good jobs in Milan don’t pay well, because the designers and photographers know the models need them.

“After six months to a year of dancing for dollars, if you haven’t already burned yourself out, you better get it together or you’ll get burned,” says Tyler.

“You’ll be a marked a dollar-boy and nobody will want you anymore.”

But, you’ll always have the memories of dancing on a cube.

You were a star. You were a box star.

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bianca coleman
6/22/2010 07:42:20 pm


Dahlia,
My best friend lived in Milan for 2yrs and I asked her opinion on this subject. Here was her response to me:

Hey Bianca
Sexual exploitation has been flourishing globally for quite some time, so now its atrociousness is highlighted in Milan; is this more shocking than other countries, continents where these activities are also prevalent and thriving?
Current day exploitation of “want to be models” continues to exist and it’s not only just limited to females – big surprise! It was rampant whilst I was living in Milan for two yrs (1995 -97). Whether it’s a “casting couch” or a “dancing cage” is extraneous as is the fact that it’s MILAN. What about Japan? How many Aussie girls have been lured across with promises of modelling jobs only to be lured into the world of prostitution? At the end of the day, it’s all about choice. No gun was held to anyone’s head to participate in these activities. What’s the issue here? Is it that it’s happening to males as well, or that it’s happening in Milan TOO?
Sexual exploitation has a more extensive repertoire today. Entrapment schemes include deception, inducement, spurious promises and some form of intimidation. In an attempt to protract their stay (even though they were lured there under false pretences) these boys tolerate more abuse and exploitation, but once again – their choice!
So Milan has surfaced as a locus where unacceptable activities are operating. The fundamental ideological bases for sexual exploitation is no longer just a patriarchal hypothesis that men like to watch females in these activities, there is obviously a market for women too, it’s all about supply and demand. Yes, there is n omnipresent commodification and sexual exploitation but not just in Milan, it must be stressed that the sexual exploitation of these boys illustrates the extreme social cost of unadulterated pursuit of fame, celebrity and fortune.
Frightening to think that they will eventually go back home with a Dolce Gabbana suit and an std.

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jason | getyouroj.com link
6/24/2010 07:59:14 am

Umm, a few points- does plain-old marijuana really deserve to be in the same sentence as heroin, cocaine, and ecstasy in the context of "evil drug"?

Even alcohol is more of a "drug". I personally kinda chortle every time I see that... marijuana carries this stupid stigma yet it's necessary for soccer fans to drink from 10-4 AM and no one says a word.

3 things that kill you, one that makes you giggle and reach for the nachos and salsa. Which of these things don't fit?

Other than that boo hoo for the poor models. I think it's more of a case of having your shit together if you're going to pursue a 'career' like that - be ready for the fall.

Anyway... model... rock star... movie star... it's the nature of the game.... and it's their free will that makes the choice(s) that they do. Cry me a river.

It's their choice.

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dahlia
6/24/2010 10:33:19 am

bianca: as always, thanks for the insight.

jason: that's why i said "plain old" marijuana... i don't flippin care about its use, but it is noteworthy to include because that is what happens... and that is how it was told to me by my source, so i wanted to depict everything my source told me accurately.

whether or not you want a river cried to you about this story, it is a story that has been completely overlooked in the fashion industry, and needed to be told. there are certainly stories i write, about which people would say "cry me a river"... they are still stories that need to be told... and if your outcome after reading the story is that then great... i elicited an opinion from you.

cheers.

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